Friday, 31 January 2014

READY TO LOVE

                             



WHEN AM I READY?
Feelings are not predictable, most of the time its unexpected and even if it was you cant stop it. You can try but will only pretend not to feel it. Its common to meet someone, hangout and develop feelings for them. But to really be in a relationship shouldn't be about just having fun together. You are ready to be in a relationship with someone...
. When he/she like you and want to be with you
. When he/she makes you happy
. When you are old enough to have a relationship
. When you Think of them always; eating, watching the television etc
. Imagine being with them frequently
. When he/she Contribute positively and have interests in what you do and you are ready to do the same
. When you really like them and help them in times of need
And the list goes on, but its fundamental that you are ready. Do not go into a relationship just for the fun of it or because every other person has a boyfriend/girlfriend.

Tuesday, 21 January 2014

BLACK WOMAN´S BEAUTY.. THE EVOLUTION




Valorization of black women´s beauty has been on the rise for the past 10years, particulary in the last 5years its been the highlight of both national and international television. The movie industry, music, jornalism, social media etc. 
But the most important event is that we black women have gone above the approval and defination of beauty. Because the truth is there is no one defination of black beauty, its too much to be put in one defination. Straight hair, thin waist etc doesnt work because we are all beautiful and sofisticated, but we are not the same shapes and sizes. Nor do we have the same features.
Moreover the most important beauty we have achieved in the last years, is the beauty of ACCEPTANCE because we are making the world accept us. Maybe not 100% but it getting better. Our main beauty is how we represent ourselves (our true features), our confidence. Its hard to tell but we all have this in us, all we need do is exercise  it (our self love) and we will glow. 
BE PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE BECAUSE BLACK WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL.